MOD NOTE: I saw this secret and I couldn’t not comment on it.
Being the son of a lesbian, I can put my hand on my heart and say that it is possible to be in love with somebody of the opposite sex even if you’re gay/lesbian. Being with somebody isn’t about the physical, it’s about the emotional. As a lesbian, you can still enjoy being with a man and you can love him, but there will always be something missing. Some people search for that something for a lifetime and others find it when they’re young. Just because Santana slept with guys; doesn’t make her straight. She was doing that to try to convince herself that wasn’t a lesbian. She was doing it to prove to herself that she could be with a man. That she didn’t have to be ‘this way’. But as she said herself, people get tired of the constant self-battling. Once you accept the fact that you like the same sex, it’s like a weight has been lifted. Santana is happy with Brittany. I’m not trying to attack your confession here, I’m simply pointing some things out. Santana didn’t “decide” to be a lesbian because of one girl. That one girl is the person that made her accept herself. That was the girl that was worth everything and more to her.